Halfhearted chicken dinners, baggy t-shirts and hair scarves are slowly eroding the concrete undergrounds of your going steady. It’s time to take control of your present, and push over the ordinary. Hit the links and learn how living luxuriously is the life for your wife….
Come on brother….
You can’t possibly convince yourself that this riddling routine is fresher than a bachelor’s outfit on club night. No, your mannerisms are the sweating, smoke-laced, after-the-club outfit; wrinkled and writhing. Also, your wife isn’t feeling too hot. After all, you’re no bachelor anymore. You’ve settled into your domain of the ultra ordinary; the likes of fantasy football serenaded by the sweet sounds of that wicked Wonder Pets show leading your soundtrack. You significant is otherwise in one of your old t-shirts, waltzing around with patterned scarves that look like she got them at a gang-member giveaway. It’s official. You’re in a relationship funk that would make George Clinton jealous. Don’t doubt. Wifey is well aware, and she is quietly brooding, souring on the demanding details of each family day. It really is a House of Pain, isn’t it?
Don’t act like you can’t change this.
It’s 2010. The prospect of boredom isn’t believable anymore. It’s time for you to step up, prep up, and power your game to the next level. Show her how important she still is to your life. Perhaps you can take solace in these five tips:
5. Investigation + Intuition = Inspiration
The Renaissance romantic does not breathe the air of conditional and corny. Go straight to jail if you’re thinking Chilis or T.G.I. Fridays. Instead, take her to a restaurant resonating with ambiance; a schedule more suitable for royalty than regulars. Make sure you sign up with www.fruugaldeal.com for updates on the hottest places.
It takes real effort to pull this off with perfection. Take cues from your casual convo, and pluck out those valuable clues to give her a good time. Maybe it’s a colorful cuisine at a Caribbean spot. Or it’s Asian Fusion and French Flair. Whatever she likes, use your inner informant to get the deets on her delights. And then, use your conclusions and take her to a place resonating with amenable ambiance. She’ll love it.
A. The Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife’s Heart Forever
4. Random Texts of Likeness
There’s a proper way to curb those texting tendencies. Your wife wants your full attention on this date, and at dinner, your Blackberry is the other woman sitting on the plate. Are you the incumbent Ari Gold of Entourage or a smarter man of valor?
This time, shock her senses with your personalized play. Get on said smart phone, and start your normal addiction, but this time, send your texts to your wife. By the time she is starting to get annoyed, send her the text. Make sure its fresh, and I don’t mean like the local supermarket.
Write something along the lines of,
“Just wanted to say you’re beautiful and I can’t wait to take that dress off”
She’s going to laugh, trust me on that. After all, she is your wife… right? Let’s just hope you really want to do that.
A. BlackBerry Pearl 8100c Phone, Slate Grey (AT&T)
B. HTC EVO 4G / HTC A9292 / Supersonic Screen Protector
3. Timeliness and Courtesy Music
So what you’ve been together for eons? Every special date has to be complimented with a play list and a proper punctuality. Take control of the night by playing some of the classics, some of the future, and make her remember the plays that made her fall in love with you. Play something brand new she hasn’t heard of before. Play songs that are her favorite… even if Beyonce or Maxwell is singing some of them. So what?? Sometimes it has to be about her.
And if you can make it about her, maybe there are things she can make for you.
2. Give her a pre-gift
A sparkling pair of earrings to wear before she takes off for the night is the perfect way to get posh with your wife. Or maybe a bracelet, some perfume; a chocolate truffle, a sexy red thong or something… anything that is complimentary is usually well appreciated. Succeeding on this one is like getting the first pick in your Fantasy League. Trust me, you’re going to rack up the points.
A. 14k White Gold, Round, Diamond Stud Earrings (1/2 cttw, J-K Color, I2-I3 Clarity)
B. Felina Uptown Girl Style #530506 Low Rise Thong
1. Keep your conversation witty & be yourself.
For once, have an evening where you aren’t talking about work or the children. Focus on your life with your wife. Focus on a happy world event, on her favorite television show. Date her. Wine her and dine her, and give witty lines as if you’re trying to win her all over again. Most importantly, be yourself. No one ever said that you have to change who you are. Just be the man she fell in love with.
Tis’ all.
{ 1 comment… read it below or add one }
Can you send this link to my husband. Lol!!!!